- Trackers
- Relationships
- Repair & rupture log (Gottman-style) Tracker
This tracker covers a sensitive category. Unhide is pattern-insight for self-improvement — never diagnosis, treatment, or medical advice. You'll be asked to confirm you understand this before your first entry.
Conflict happens. Repair is the story.
Log ruptures and repairs for 30 days. our AI shows your repair-landing rate, your time-to-repair trajectory, and your harsh-vs-soft startup pattern.
"30 days, 6 ruptures. Repair attempted in 5 of 6, landed in 4. Average time-to-repair 6.4 hours — down from 28 hours in your first logging month. Harsh-startup …
6 fields. Done in 30 seconds per rupture, 10 seconds on no-rupture days.
Fast enough to fit into any routine, specific enough to generate real patterns after 30 days.
Log, build, learn.
Log in 30 seconds per rupture, 10 seconds on no-rupture days
One entry. A few taps. The fields are designed so you never have to think about what to fill in.
Build your dataset
Miss a day? Optional email nudge. AI needs 30 entries to find patterns worth reading.
First insight free
AI analysis at 30 entries. Your factors, your dates, your correlations — not a generic article.
7 things Repair & rupture log (Gottman-style) reveals about you.
- Rupture frequency and the trajectory across weeks
- Repair-landing rate (the central long-term metric)
- Time-to-repair trend (does your resilience grow?)
- Which rupture kinds recur
- The harsh-vs-soft startup pattern
- Stress and sleep precursors to rupture days
- Whether repairs restore connection or paper over
Here's what arrives at 30 days.
Illustrative — your analysis uses your own data.
Your repair & rupture log (gottman-style) patterns show a clear weekly cycle. AI finds the specific factors affecting your scores — after 30 days, your data tells the story.
“"30 days, 6 ruptures. Repair attempted in 5 of 6, landed in 4. Average time-to-repair 6.4 hours — down from 28 hours in …”
People watching their own patterns.
Couples in committed relationships — married, cohabiting, long-term — who want to understand their conflict-and-repair pattern with real data instead of vibes. Especially useful for couples who have read Gottman's work, are in or have completed couples therapy, or are simply curious whether the repair work is landing over time. One partner usually logs; the other is welcome to read but not required.
Common questions
Is the Repair & rupture log (Gottman-style) tracker medical or diagnostic?
No. Unhide is pattern-insight for self-improvement — not diagnosis, treatment, or medical advice. The AI is explicitly prompted to avoid clinician language. If something concerns you, please talk to your GP.
Does the AI see my entries?
Only when an analysis runs — triggered in-app or delivered to your email. Either way, only your logged data and history is sent, never your personal information. Your data is never used to train any AI model. Full detail in the privacy policy.
What if I miss a day or two?
No streak guilt. Your insights stay accurate; the chart just has fewer dots. The AI explicitly works around gaps in your data instead of pretending they're zeros.
When is my first AI insight free?
At 30 days of entries, and again at 180 days, on every free tracker. Free plan includes 2 trackers — upgrade for monthly or weekly AI runs.
Can I delete everything?
Yes, anytime, no questions asked. Delete a single entry, a whole tracker, or the entire account. Deletion cascades through analyses and exports.
Pair with these trackers.
A 30-second daily connection-and-friction read — and let AI show you the relationship's slow trajectory and what predicts your best days together.
Log which forms of connection happened today — and let AI show which ones actually predict feeling close for you.
Track real undistracted time with the people who matter, and let AI show whether the quantity adds up to quality.
Free forever · Plus £7.99/mo · Pro £17.99/mo
Be first when Repair & rupture log (Gottman-style) launches
We'll email you as soon as this tracker goes live.